Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatahu (May Peace, Blessings & Mercy of Allah Be Upon You)
Article by Sister Noor-ul-Huda & Brother Asim ul Haq
The Article is in reply to these series of allegations:
1) Refutation Series I: Muslim Women are Dirty Polluting Creatures
2) Refutation Series II:Women are inferior, slave to men
Allegation number 3: Muslim women are sex objects for men’s enjoyment
The article below clarifies that women in ISLAM are not sex objects neither is anal sex allowed but people to malign Islam quote verses to prove otherwise.
Islamwatch quoted
Muslim women are sex object for men’s enjoyment
From Quran:Sura (2:223) – “Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will.” Wives are to be sexually available to their husbands in all ways at all times. They serve their husbands at his command.
This verse refers to anal sex (see Bukhari 60:51), and was “revealed” when women complained to Muhammad about the practice. The phrase “when and how you will” means that they lost their case.
Response:
The above is a blatant lie anal sex is Haram in Islam. Shaykh Salih Al Munajjid said in his fatwa
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (Have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allaah to bestow upon you pious offspring) for your own selves beforehand. And fear Allaah, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad).” [al-Baqarah 2:223]
From the word harth (tilth) we understand that what is permissible is only in the vagina (the front passage), especially because this is what will produce children. The semen that is planted in the womb from which offspring come is likened to the seeds which are planted in the ground, from which vegetation comes, as both of them are substances from which something else is produced.
The phrase translated as “when or how you will”; means, in any manner you wish, from behind or from the front, sitting or with the wife lying on her back or on her side, so long as it is in the place of tilth (i.e., the vagina, the place through where a baby is born).
A verse from a poet says:
The wombs are lands for us to till; we have to plant the seeds and whatever grows is up to Allaah.
It was reported from Khuzaymah ibn Thaabit (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah is not too shy to tell you the truth: do not have intercourse with your wives in the anus.” (Narrated by Imaam Ahmad, 5/213; a hasan hadeeth).
Ibn ‘Abbaas said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah will not look at a man who has intercourse with his wife in her anus.” (Narrated by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529; narrated and classed as saheeh by al-Tirmidhi, 1165).
See Nayl al-Maraam by Siddeeq Hasan Khaan, 1/151-154.
If a man does this, his wife is not considered to be divorced as many people say; because there is no shar’i evidence at all that indicates this. But the scholars say, if a man habitually does this to his wife, she has the right to ask for divorce, because he is an evildoer (faasiq) who is causing harm to her and himself by this action, and also because the purpose of marriage cannot be achieved through this action. The wife has to resist this evil action and remind her husband about Allaah and about the punishment for transgressing the limits set by Allaah. If the husband repents to Allaah from this deed, there is no reason why she should not stay with him, and there is no need to renew the marriage contract. And Allaah is the Source of strength.
source: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/6792/
Check the following links on the issue under discussion:
Ruling on Intercourse with a Woman in her rectum: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/1103/
There is nothing in Islam to say that anal intercourse is permissible: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/91968/
Is anal sex allowed between the husband and the wife in Islam?: http://www.answering-christianity.com/anal_sex.htm
Islamwatch quoted
From Hadith:Bukhari (62:81) Narrated ‘Uqba: The Prophet said: “The stipulations most entitled to be abided by are those with which you are given the right to enjoy the (women’s) private parts (i.e. the stipulations of the marriage contract).”
Bukhari 7:62:132 Narrated ‘Abdullah bin Zam’a: The Prophet said, “None of you should flog his wife as he flogs a slave and then have sexual intercourse with her in the last part of the day.”
Response
What problem does the author have with the legal relationship of a wife with her husband or vice versa? It seems that the author of the article is against this legal relationship. By quoting these ahadith , what is he trying to prove? These ahadith, no way, say that women are to be used!
BUT Islam teaches us each and everything regarding the married life and that’s why it is a complete code of life. ALHAMDULILLAH.
Allah (swt) says;
And of His signs is this: He created for you spouses from yourselves that ye might find rest in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy. Lo! herein indeed are portents for folk who reflect. (Quran 30:21)
See beautiful article by Brother Kevin Abdullah Karim on the issue of “The Islamic way of making love to your wife!”
http://www.answering-christianity.com/karim/islamic_way_of_making_love_to_wife.htm
Continue reading here:Refutation Series IV: Muslim Men can Capture Infidel Women as Sex Slave Booty